If you dream that you are keeping a harem, it reflects a tendency to squander your finest gifts and energies on shallow or fleeting indulgences. Your potential is real, but it can only be fulfilled when your ambitions are aimed at something meaningful.
If a woman dreams she is living within a harem, it may signal a pull toward pleasures that carry risk or moral complexity, particularly an attraction to those who are unavailable. If she dreams she holds a favored position within the harem, she may enjoy certain material advantages over others for a time — but those privileges will not last.